I used to have a dog before and his name was cooper. Cooper was one of the most clever and strong dog so far that I’ve known so far. He was the kind of dog onto which you can rely only in moments of distress and trouble to protect you. He would never pee or do anything wrong inside the house. Cooper was just an amazing talk. When he will need to go out he will allow any member of the family that he needs to go out or even for food.
Dare to make the difference people! Here is the thing. I am about to tell you a story about how did i make the difference for myself and not for anybody else. I grew up on a small island where there is not much happening but where almost everybody is very happy. In my place everyday you will see and taste what we call the beauty of simplicity. You will get to breathe fresh air everyday, pollution is almost totally inexistent, a large lagoon, mountains and white sandy beaches. No wonder they call the island as the anti-stress island. The best place to go.
Have you ever been in a situation where you don’t know who you are? I am in a situation like this. I am into a situation where I am confused. I don’t know what to do with my life and I don’t know who I want to be. Let me get it clear for you. There is a difference between how people think you are and who you are really.
I have always had that feeling where I don’t get a sense of belonging no matter what situation I am in.
Growing up as a kid was really great for me. I got every toys i wanted to have and any capricious thing that i wanted to have. However, when you are a spoiled kid you always tend to exceed the limit. During that period of time i was flawless and fearless. I controlled everything and everyone around me and i had a problem as well. The problem was that i could not control my anger. But everything changed when i went to primary school. Let me tell you the story as it happened.
Studying abroad can be a really nice experience. You will get to know more people, you will have new friends, new activities and a lot of things to discover. When we think about it, all these new adventures seems exciting. However, it has a hidden curriculum as almost everything has it nowadays by the way. Here i will give you some food for thought before you engage yourself into an adventure like this.
Love yourselves people. No matter what we do in life will never be enough to please people. Its in human nature. We are a race that never gets full satisfaction No matter how much good things we have done, people will always point their fingers on our wrong doings and weaknesses.
Everyday we get criticised. People will tell us that we study too much that we are to fat, too skinny, too short and too tall. Im fine with that. The reason why i am fine with that is because i feel comfortable with myself. The reason why i am fine with that is because their opinions doesn’t count and i am who i am. As long as i am happy that is enough for me.
Being in this world can be really crazy at times. There are moments when we feel low, we let go and we think that everything is against us. Life is hard for sure. At times we are broke and at times we are all caught up in our daily worries. But we need to remind ourselves that after the storm always come the sunshine. Let's be optimistic and positive. Today i want to make you realise that no matter how lonely we feel, no matter how broke we feel, no matter how down we feel, we must always hope for the best and tell to ourselves that there is something great that is coming to us.
I always love seeing mixed couples. Sometimes when i am having coffee in Starbucks or just walking around in the shopping mall and it happen that i see a mix couple, it just make my day. The reason is pretty simple. It makes me realise that we are living in a free world and after all we are only one race which is human race. It makes me realise that the human race has bring evolution and boundaries are minimal nowadays.
These couples are so cute and seem to be so happy when you look at them. They may look different from the outside that is their skin tones or any other physical characteristics but from the inside the are similar. For me it is a very good thing that we have a lot of mixed couples nowadays. First of all, we will discover and understand each other's culture and perspectives a bit more. This will lead to a more open minded. Sometimes things that the media shows about a particular race is not necessarily true. The best thing is to go and discover by yourself.
Family is something that very often we take for granted. We often think that what they do for us is compulsory. But the reality is that it’s not. We sometimes forget to show love to them or sometimes we don’t know how to love them.
Let’s make something clear! Very often the first person to criticise our lifestyle is our mom or our dad. We sometimes get mad at each other or we sometimes ignore each other. But the thing is that they are and will always be the first people who will come to save us during our moments of distress. Sincerely speaking, i don’t know how to love my family. I am far away from them which makes the relationship more difficult to maintain. However, i know that i love them a lot and they love me as well. They may criticise my decisions but this is how we roll.
I do not know what to say or think about politics sometimes. Yes! It is a very important institution in our society. But sometimes we take this thing too far. It is just too extreme. So many people are fighting and arguing because of political issues. Where will this lead us? Nowhere! As usual.
Politics has great power when being used properly. It will enhance the development of a country for sure until a certain point. But sometimes when i look at some people who are involve in politics, it just leaves me speechless.
Before going further, our society tend to go overboard while criticising and talking about a politician. But we still have to remember that a politician is first of all a mother, a brother, a son, a father and a sister. We have to at least give a minimum respect to those people who decide to come in front of the society and give a point of view. I know we that we live in a world where there is the majority countries that promote democracy as well as freedom of expression. I know we have to talk but please do respect these people.
But at first i have to say that this issue comes from far long time ago. There are certain politicians
First of all you need to allow yourself sometimes. When i say yourself i really mean it. Take a break from everything that you are doing and spend some time alone. By doing so, you will get time to think about yourself and about what you really want to do with your life. You will get a clear picture of who you are and enough time to put your projects down on paper. By taking a break also you will get to know who are the people who genuinely care about you and who do not give a damn at all.
After this being done. You have already get all your shits together. Go back to a normal life and work on your goals. If you do not want a normal life, then work towards the other end of it. But please do something positive for yourself and the people that surrounds you. However, the problem with your normal life can be that you have a busy schedule. The best thing that i can tell you is to find some time on a daily basis for working on the thing that you want. For instance you may want to be a professional saxophonist. If u want to do that, there is nothing wrong with it. You just need to allocate yourself at least one hour per day and work really heard on your stuffs which will involve practicing, learning and sharing. We all have the change to be whoever we want on this planet. We just need to give a room and some time for what we really want.
From now on i hope you can look at your life differently. The things that i am saying are not much but i hope that it is enough. Honestly speaking right now, my hope is your hope. My strength is your strength. I wrote this today because my family and i are in a bad time. The only way that i can at least do something is to write these few lines. Losing someone who shares your blood is never easy. But i still hope. Despite that i am not able to be with them, i hope that they know that i am there for them. I hope that my lost relative will find paradise.
Today I want to share how I fix my problems any time I get into a conflict with someone from my surrounding. Fixing problems for some people is a big issue for some people. But today, you will get something that can really be useful to you.
First of all, you need to observe! Observe the problem and the person that is doing something that annoys you or affects you in one way or the other. After you are done with your observation, wait for a moment where you are in private with the particular person. Once you get to that point, you can share your observation to him or her and in a diplomatic way. You need to make sure that you do not get angry or raise your voice in order to be able to continue with the process.
When it comes to who we are there are a lot of things that we need to take into consideration. There are certain things that are key to shape us such as norms, values and beliefs. These three things vary from time to time, place-to-place and society-to-society. Norm is something that is considered as normal in a particular society. For instance, the kind of clothes that we wear. Then there is value. Values are the behaviors that we consider as right such as help the needy. Then there is belief which what mostly we have faith in it and consider as the right path.
Going to college is a really nice thing as you are in the pre adult zone. You will enjoy it a lot trust me. You will change more than ever. You will get to know a lot of new people as well as a new perspective when it comes to life. I’ve met a lot of people who share all different visions when it comes to lifestyle. I do not really feel that comfortable talking about it but I will share my experience with you guys.
Take your time to enjoy this very moment. You never know what may happen tomorrow. For me now the end of my studies is near. What’s next? I don’t know. It is kind of a scary thought. I know that I have done something great for myself. I did it all my way with all the struggles and steps. I have faced so many things. But still I have enjoyed so much. Regrets of course I have a few but we have to live with it.
You need to lose yourself to find yourself. This is how you will know who you really are. Dare to do something unusual or out of common. In that sense you will know whether you like it or not. So many times we look at things from far or from an eye bird view. So many thing seem to be difficult from outside then when we try it, we can see that it wasn’t that hard. It goes the other way round as well. When I am saying that I am referring to something new that may be good for you. I am not referring to stuffs that can be detrimental to your life. I am sure that you get what I mean.
Time is just passing by and ı am not yet where ı want to be! Damn! But ı am confident that everything will get better very soon. I am one step closer day by day people!
As for now ı am thinking about my life. I am thinking about my past. I remember all the moments as if it was yesterday. These memories are what drives me actually. These memories are what have shaped me. Whether they are good and bad memories, they are beneficial to me. Why?
The reason is just that bad memories has shaped me and made me stronger and good memories give me energy to move forward.
Where do we start here? Hey yes I know! Long distance relationship! Well! Long distance relationship can be a really nice thing depending on how you go about it. It can become a nightmare as well. Today I want to break this down for you people.
Sometimes, when couple have to be separated from each other for usually a lot of time, they prefer to stay together rather than breaking up. A fact that I will not deny is a pure act of love, understanding and optimism.
I love to talk to people a lot. Yesterday I definitely got a new friend or new friends. True story here people! We are friends on facebook for a few weeks now! He always like and read my stories. So it was already as if he knew me already! But we never had a private conversation. If you get what I mean! So he messaged me into a pretty simple way!
"Hi! How are you doing?"
Eventually, I answered him and from there we got to have a very nice and awesome conversation. We were talking about random stuffs as well like how was your day and how is your family? Then the conversation took another way round into an entertaining and informative one.
Today i woke up with a lot of questions in my head. Despite that I know the answers already, I still kept thinking about these questions. I woke up today thinking to myself;
Who am I? where am I? who do I want to be? and where do I want to go?
Well! I have the answers already and they are very obvious to me. However, why did these questions got stuck into my head since this morning? I was even asking myself whether I am insane! lol!
Well well well!!! hello beautiful people. Today I am really excited to be here with you as usual! lol! So basically today I want to share with you what I have been up to and how we can help each other.
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I am in a state of mind where success is everything now. It is really hard to get the life that you always want but I am going for it. Its either I will break down this puzzle or the puzzle will break me down. No matter what happen, I am going for it. I am going to have my dream life.
Sometimes we may feel that we are stuck and that there is no way out in a particular context. But trust me before any problem has been created, the solution has already been created. So no matter what it is, what has happened, what is happening and what will happen, I am going for it. full house!
Sometimes the least of your priorities is the only thing that is able to lift you up. Let me try to explain to you! There is always a time when you feel down. In no matter what we are doing, there is always a time when we feel down. We feel down because we are tired! We feel down because of the struggles! We feel down because of the setbacks. But we are always able to come back. We may fall down a lot of time but we get strength to get up and fight back.
How deep is your love! how deep is your love for the cause that you are defending? how deep is your love for your family? how deep is your love when it comes to your job? how deep is your love for success?
If any of us is doing an activity, a job, a passion or something that we want to have, then we have to ask ourselves how bad do we want them. Because when we put love in everything that we are doing or about to do, there is no way that we are not going to succeed.
Hello, everybody! I hope that you are all doing great! If not please cheer up! We do not have time to feel down people! Find to enjoy every step of your ride. Well as you can see, I am starting to change things around on my side. There is a new look, a new website. But sadly it is still a work in progress and there is stiĺl a lot of rooms for improvement. I have to apologise in advance for any inconvenince.
Life can get complicated people! There will be always up and down! there will be always rise and fall! what matter is what do you do about it. When you fall down, do you just stay there or do you try to get up? When you get to the top, do you just chill there or you try to stay there?
Hello everyone! I have been thinking lately about relationships and I can tell you that there are a lot of advantages of being in a relationship. It is always nice when you are with the right person. isn't it? haha! well, today we are going to outline few advantages of being in a relationship.
Life sometimes has certain ways of testing us. There are ups and downs! Very often when life brings us down, we tend to feel discourage. When we face difficulties, we prefer to abandon our goals and focus on something else. It is ok to fail sometimes. this is how we know our limitations and strength. However, it is not ok to let go too early and too easily.
I have no idea what is to come but what I am sure of is that nice and big things are already coming. During the time where we tend to feel discouraged, good things tend to happen suddenly. Nonetheless, we got to keep our feet to the ground. Out of nothing, we are starting to get our rewards. Out of passion, we are starting to harvest the fruit and out of hard work, we are starting to see the results.
Hi everybody! I hope that you are all doing great. I am so glad to be here as usual. Well, first of all I have to apologise for my absence. I was having some health issue for the last week and trust me! This sickness made me feel like I will never see tomorrow. Anyway! Despite being still sick, I started missing you guys already and just wanted to pass by, check on you and say hi!
Everything that we do in life has a benefit and the core benefit behind is our personal benefit. It may sound selfish to you but this is how it is. Some people happiness might come from money, clothes, a brand new car, family and love. Whatever it is, it makes us happy! There is nothing wrong in seeking happiness. Nonetheless, there is a way of doing things. There is an ethical code in doing whatever we do. Let's make sure that we do things that will not leave a staint on our happiness. If we are doing something good for ourselves, let's be genuine and let's not use, manipulate and hurt others. There is nothing worse than having your empire being constantly disturbed by guilt and remorse.
Merry Christmas and happy new Year to all of you people. Now it is a new start and it is something as well as situation that is really nice. We are all ready to face new challenges and acheive new goals as well as successes. If we are are, I sincerely hope that we will get ready along the way.
Live your life people! That's what I'm talking about! I believe that no matter what the situation is, no matter where you are or who you are with, you simply got to be yourself. I say this because when you are yourself, you avoid disappointment. You avoid disappointing yourself and you avoid disappointing people.
Sometimes, we wake up in a good mood as well as in a bad mood. Did you realise that when we wake up in a bad mood almost everything goes wrong throughout the day. Even from the very start everything tend to go the wrong way. Maybe our alarm clock fall down or we break it or we just fall off from our bed. Then we turn out to be late to work as we are thinking so much about what if we are late. At work or at school as well it seems that nothing is right as well. So obviously here, we just got a bad day and there was no fun in it.
We live in a world where we always get caught up in our own world. We are just there being in our comfort zone and once we get out of it, we panic and then we start worrying. We are often so caught up in work that we tend to forget about our friends and families. We forget how to have fun like we used to do before. For sure money is something that is important for survival nowadays but to what extent should we go after it? Some may say that money is never enough and some may say that they want to be a billionaire. But to what extent are we willing to go for money.
Everything happens for a reason they say! I am still wondering what can be the reason and I haven't find an answer yet. Sometimes when I think about I say maybe things happen for a reason for real but on the other hand I say to myself that we have to make things happen. We have to fight for what we want. I believe that we are the only one in charge of our present life or destiny.
If there is something that I have learn so far, it is that we should never underestimate or downgrade anybody. Sometimes we see people acting weird and we judge them without knowing the reason why they act like that. We judge them because they are different compared to everyone else around us.
But when we dig deep, we tend to see that these people are really nice people. For sure they can be drug addict, alcoholic and awkward but trust me! If you are willing to see something good in them, you will see it. This is a fact people! Talkless of what you may say or thing about it. I believe that we should never give up on these people as well as it is never too late to change. Sometimes they just need a bit of confidence and trust and here we go. They get on their way to do great things already. And afterall, we need all kind of people to make a great world. Sometimes we do not understand them for shoes but sometimes we need to walk in their shoes as well.
It's crazy how people can bring you down unknowingly. We are so selfishfly saying what we say sometimes that we forget to consider what the other person might feel sometimes. We just give our thoughts out of the blue sometimes that we hurt others unknowingly.
Why is it like some people are not optimistic about whatever you are doing. They will always tell you that you cannot do this or that. They will tell you that you cannot reach that level or you cannot go that far. Well, the only thing that we can do is to ignore those people. We know where we are going and where we want to go. Whatever they do or say, do not allow it to reach you even if it is coming from the people who are very close to you. You may not be where you want to be yet but with time and experience you will reach your destination. Have faith in yourself, this is the most important. i know that you can prove your critics wrong.
Life is simple but it does not mean that it is easy. Life according is all about a set of rules and guidelines that we need to follow and in doing so it will make things a lot easier in a sense for us. It is all about balance as well as we need to know when to have fun and when to work to work in order to get what we want. We all have responsibilities nad tasks to do. Once we are settle with our responsibilities, we all know that we can go on without any fear or worry.
We came to earth and we were given an identity. Our identity is based on where we come from, what ethnic group we bong to and it is also based on the behaviour that the people that are in the same category as us. It can get really crazy with stereotypes and assumptions. One thing is for sure! We are responsible for our own actions and not actions that others do. Nonetheless, today we are not going into that kind of conversation. Today we are going to talk about who we are.
We are all perfect human beings with our own imperfections. It happens that we make mistake and this is what proves we are human. There is always a time where our hearts enter in conflict with our minds. It is still normal! Don't worry about it! Sometimes we get discouraged or dissapointed because things are not going the way that we want to. Sometimes we isolate ourselves because we don't want to see or talk to anybody or just because we just want to have a personal time. It is also understandable.
Damn! Time flies really fast! I still remember the moments when I was going to school for the first time.
Let's move together at every step!